Difficult Emotion Process

My paladin and her boyfriend broke up months ago and I too got touched with the break-up because Ive overly let friends with the ex-boyfriend. My friend has started to see other guys and the ex-boyfriend is seeing other girls too. The thing is, the ex-boyfriend, although he is dating with other girls, isnt everyplace my friend yet and he is using me as his bridge to his ex-girlfriend. That is book with me. My role would be to update the ex-boyfriend with how the girl is doing.As a friend, I had become a confidante of the girl and she would tell me all so I let intercourse that the girl is really over her ex-boyfriend and has started to like the guy he met in one of her Chemis separate out class. Then, being a friend of the ex-boyfriend, I have learned that he constantly calculates of my friend and still hoping that they could come to atonement and eventually get back together. I thought that the ex-boyfriend should know that thither wint be a second chance amongst them. I have already given him the idea and then, he precious me to tell everything some(predicate) what I know of his ex and the current of his ex.I did and this baffle him confront the ex-girlfriend. Now, my friend is upset at me. Part of me matte up blamable and the other makes me think that I shouldnt for I am sightly being a friend to both of them. 2. Ive thought about our friendship and I felt horrible of how it is recompense now. I felt its shouldnt how friendships should end and Ive thought friendships shouldnt be ruined like that. Being in the selfsame(prenominal) school, we can void passing each other but we cant repress seeing each other. On our free time, I asked her if she precious to utter and she say yes.Maybe, she felt the same as I did and maybe, she also wanted to talk about it. I think she misses me too I told her that I regret non having to explain to her function a focus and that we ended not public lecture to each other. I explained to her that I felt guilty about having to disclose her dating with another guy to her ex-boyfriend, but, I think as a friend to her ex, I should help him move on and by telling him about her new guy this would make him think. I also told her that I think she should also tell this to his ex so the ex could start moving on.I said that when she got upset, I also felt the same towards her because I couldnt understand why she would feel like that and I couldnt sleep thinking of what she is thinking about me. I said that I also had second thoughts of telling it all to the ex. I also told her that I felt I do not deserve the cold treatment Ive been receiving from her for days because I think I did the right thing to help the ex and that will not do her any(prenominal) harm and that there is no point of keeping the dating in secret from her ex.And if she felt that Im not supposed to befriend the ex, it isnt right. I told her that I wanted to get things back the way it was before all those things happened. 3. Ive had confrontations before and every time it is so difficult to go through. I watched her reactions and I saw that she is also saddened. She was sense of hearing intently. When it came to the part where I told her of how I do not deserve her agreeable of treatment, she covered her face and started to cry, but she kept on listening. I think I did all the talking at our conversation.She was so quiet. It was really awkward. I thought, at that moment, I was hurting her. Just to end the silence, I asked her if she wanted to buy a soda. She turned to me and said she missed me. I come int know if things between us is really okay right now, but maybe it would. I hope it would. Maybe later we could try fixing things. I think whats important is that we start talking to each other again. Later, I would try to talk her through believe each other again. 4. The skill was useful, although I wasnt perfectly authorized if I followed it all.But it reminded me of many points that would hel p me and it did help me. The timing was perfect, I wasnt telling any non-sense that could have hurt her more. I think it helped me make my friend understand how I felt. I was so cautious with my rowing and because I know her well, I know which words could hurt her and which wont and how I should tell her. I just know how she would tackle things based on how it is being delivered to her. I didnt get very much response from her at that time, but, later, shell talk.